It began when we had our children. At first, it was a small distance that began between us. It seemed to grow as we were consumed with the daily things, such as the kids, work, and financial stress. We neglected each other and didn’t spend as much time together as we had before. One thing that frustrated me was that situations that normally wouldn’t have bothered us before would now cause a three-day fight! Small things irritated us, and we were at each other’s throats all the time.
As I began to realize just how much distance there was between us, I was incredibly hurt and depressed. When I found out my husband had been having an affair, I was sure it was over. Rather than trying to save our marriage, or even realizing that I could, I just slipped further into my depression. Regardless of what had happened, I loved my husband and I did not want to have a divorce.
While he was at work one day, I decided to look for something that might help me survive the divorce I knew was coming; instead, I found Save My Marriage . I read through the description page and it grew a small seed in my mind. I wondered if I could really save our marriage. I decided to purchase it and at least give it a try.
The first thing I realized about our marriage was that we really were speaking a different language. Because we view things differently, our messages were getting mixed up! I had to think back to the times my husband had obviously attempted to do something nice or sweet for me, and I took it the wrong way and was offended. This book helped me realize how the things I say may be interpreted wrongly just because my husband thinks differently than I do. I cannot begin to explain the different things I learned from this book and the insight that I gained into my own marriage – from a stranger who had never met me before!
While this eBook did contain a valuable section that would help me survive a divorce, I didn’t need it. I sat down and made some realistic goals. I changed the way I say and do certain things, and I had a heart-to-heart talk with my husband. He agreed that we had to do something if we wanted to save our marriage.
Luckily, we found Save My Marriage and we were able to work together. I was even able to deal with my feelings about the affair and the damage it had done to our relationship. Now, my husband and I have an amazing marriage
and couldn’t be happier together. We love spending time together, and we even find moments to run off into another room to be together like we did when we were first married! I am thankful every day for Save My Marriage Today and how it saved our marriage.