Becoming irresistible to men means accentuating every your strength, from mental to physical or emotional aspect– and having enough confidence to pursuit anything you want. Remember that staying irresistible is less about them and more about you, so focus on yourself first. Be the best of you, then the men will soon come flocking! And here are basic steps you can follow to keep irresistible to men:
Most men don’t even begin to show interest until they feel that their efforts are welcome. This can be different among different cultures, but most men in the U.S. feign indifference until they find some sign of interest from the women, which seem frustrating but certainly understandable.
So remember to never put yourself out there. A man’s heart can become like soft squishy when they find their effort to pursuit their women is not accepted. So, the first step to get a man to want you is to give him an invitation to be interested in you.
Step #2: Superglue it
The problem that most women are afraid is that when they invite that attention and go out on a nice date, the men will consider that attraction connection as something solid and “real” that they sign the contract in sex. Personally, I think:
“This simple intimacy and connection is totally good, don’t afraid of having have sex and take these feelings to the next level if you find it appropriate. In addition, once I have sex with you, you’ll want to keep coming back for more. Is this true?”
It seems logical. And it is certainly right in the moment, however there’s a significant difference between falling in love and falling into the sack never to call you again.
If you’re looking for a man who wants you for more than 20 minutes, then you should consider the first option. And be patient until this works for you.
The spark and connection you feel is tender and it needs time to grow strong before becoming solid and “real.”
So, don’t hurry to have sex during the first few dates, but make him work for it. When a man is trying to attract a woman by taking her out on dates, doing her favors, giving her his jacket when it’s cold, he will more bond with her, I mean Superglue bond.
Step #3: Practice Proceptivity
“Proceptivity” means the art of staying proactively receptive to a man who pursuing you.
You may first feel that it’s not a good idea to pursue a man because when you make things too easy on him, he can less respect to you. However, this doesn’t mean you’re helpless on the sidelines and waiting for a morsel of his attention; this simply means that you are waiting for him to realize how amazing you are, and finally, you can ride off into the sunset already. Yeesh!
On the other hand, you’re in relationship with him; punch for punch. So to any of his action, you need to have response.
Below are 5 examples on how to practice Proceptivity:
- Learn to say “thank you” when he does something generous or chivalrous
- Smile at him to imply that you’re enjoying yourself
- Laugh when he says something charming, sweet, or funny
- Appreciate everything he does that you like.
- Never criticize him. This rule is like in the beginning, he needs to make sure that his attention and efforts are welcome, or he won’t have enough confidence to make his moves.
Yeah, here are 3 proven steps to become irresistible to men. They are all simple and easy to follow. So are you ready to give them a try?