Finding a woman with whom you truly fall in love is difficult, and it is much more difficult to attract and capture her heart. But everything is on your own hands, you are the person who decides whether you will be successful or not. And it is said by some experienced people that once you are well-prepared for your date, you will be likely gain your desire. And here I’d like to share you very amazing secrets proven by successful and happy men about how to date a women successfully.
Actually, a complete process of dating and gaining a women’s heart complete 6 key phrase. Let’s me go into details about them!
Phase 1: Finding the Right woman
This is the first and also one of the most important phases in your process of gaining your desired woman’s heart. If you find your right girl, your next phrase will be much easier, you will be much more emotional to conduct your plan and it will be certain that you will gain success, otherwise you will soon want to stop your plan or it will never be as good as your expectation. And here is some of girls that you should never date:
- Your secretary
- Your ex girlfriend (an occasional booty call might be okay, but you can give up on dating once it’s over!)
- High-maintenance girls
- Strippers, hookers, and other “professionals”
If you still try to date with such girls, your relationship will probably be broken sooner or later.
Phase 2: Arranging the Date
After finding a proper girl for yourself, it’s time to ask her out on a date. Yes, I know that there are some new social norms that girls ask guys for date. But they are not proper for this case. You want her, so don’t be a dick and wait for her to call you. Ask her out because most girls like guys who take the initiative, aka have balls. What should you do before coming to a real date?
Yeah, first of all, Get to know when she is free.
Your chance of getting a “yes” will be much higher if you ask her out at a convenient time for her. You should also catch the chance to set up a date with her by the time you think that she will be in good and relaxed mood. Therefore, if you know that she has an important work meeting on Monday, don’t ask her out on Sunday. Instead, suggest her going out on Tuesday when the stress of that meeting is over.
Make sure that you already have specific plans
If a women is really free and she doesn’t feel too bad about you, she may say yes when you ask, “Umm, do you want to do something on Friday night?” But, remember that the girl also has her own life, she possibly won’t be excited about doing “something.”
When you ask a girl out, remember to recommend specific suggestion. Here is an example:
“I know that new movie is very fascinating. Would you like to go see it with me on Friday and get a drink afterwards?”
A girl will be more likely to agree with this sort of date request than generic plans to do “something.” She may even cancel other plans she’s made to go out with you!
Only Ask Her Out Once!
In a an unlucky case that your women say “no” to date, then don’t keep asking. You will become desperate in her eyes – something no woman are interested in.
A girl may refuse to go on the date because she is busy, which doesn’t matter. But, if she is actually interested in you, she will arrange time to see you, for example, she adds some suggestions such as “maybe next week instead?” after her refusal, so now it is okay that you arrange another date with her.
Phase 3: On the Date
Before being on the date, make sure that you have flirting techniques in your hands so that you can build up sexual attraction and get her to even desire more of you. And here are some of recommending
Chivalry Isn’t Dead
Forget all the notions that you should let a woman pay the bill or open the door on her own. Try to act like a Medieval Knight and take care of your maiden.
- Open the door for her
- Praise her appearance
- Give her your jacket if it’s cold out
- When picking her up, always come to the door. Never call her and tell her to come out!
- Pay the bill.
Never Talk about Your Ex!
Talking about your ex with the girl you are dating is probably the silliest thing you should never do on a date. For starters, this action something proves that you haven’t totally forgotten your ex. Likewise, your ex girlfriend is perhaps a terrible topic for conversation for you’ll be likely to say all sorts of bad things. Remember that your date is supposed to be an upbeat, fun moment for both of you to build connection and sexual attraction as well. You cannot win that if you repeatedly talk about how crazy your ex was.
Drop Subtle Clues about Your Date-ability
Most women agree to go on a date with you as they think you are a promising prospective mate. So during the date, try to show some clues to prove her that you what the missing piece of hers. For example, share that you’ve got a dog (you’re responsible), that you are waiting or a promotion next year (financially stable), and that you playing with kids(good daddy material).
Sleeping with Her
If you seriously like a girl and want to see her again, then never sleep with her after the first date. Here is some reasons for this recommendation:
- First of all, you can reveal to her that you are interested in her for more than just sex
- Secondly, it makes up the sexual tension so she wants you even more
Phase 4: After the Date
No matter it is your first or fifth date, you should always follow up after a date. Even if you don’t like the girl very much, you still need to follow up! This is not only a polite behavior, it can also save you from a potentially embarrassing situation ( you see the girl while you are trying to pick up another girl).
After your first date, you are advised to immediately follow up with a text message. Then you can call her some days latter to touch base. Never wait until X days before you call a girl as recommended in some rules. Just do as you find it natural. If you really like her, you’ll possibly want to call her the next day. If you are staying on fence, you can wait for several days. Both situations are fine.
One more important thing about the post-date follow up is not to bombard her with messages. This will make you become clingy and needy in her eyes. Contact her once or twice (maximum), then wait for her calling back.
Phase 5: Is It Exclusive?
So now, you’ve been on date for a few dates, and both of you are hitting it off well, and you think she could be “the right girl.” It is time to consider whether you two are dating exclusively or not. Unluckily, things aren’t as simple as they were in high school where we just asked “Do you want to be my girlfriend?”
Never Assume It’s Exclusive!
No matter how long you have been on date, never have the thought that she is exclusively dating you. You’ll feel like an ass when you realize she’s still hooking up with her ex from 2 years ago.
If you feel really confident with the perspectives of you relationship with her , you can make a direct approach and simply ask her if she is still interested in seeing other men. In contrast, in case you aren’t confident, then you should follow some of subtle methods to figure out what she thinks about your relationship.
- Ask her “So, what do you tell your friends about us?”
- Jokingly ask, “So, did you pick up any hot men in the bar last night?”
- Pay attention to the time you are spending together and the time she spends going out without you.
Remember that this is simply to help you to get to know about your girl’s thought about relationship status! You should never fish for answers about your exclusivity, and you should definitely never make assumptions.
Phase 5: Keep It Interesting
Now you know that you two are exclusively dating, but that hasn’t been enough to conclude that you are successful due to a trap which has been involved many couples: boredom. Keep the lust, passion, and build your love by making memories together, sharing new interests, as well as making plan for future.
Ok, here is a complete process of dating a woman that has helped a lot of men win their dream girl. It covers all important things that you need to follow for a happy and long-lasting relationship, from choosing right girl for date, to maintain happy feeling when you are a couple. It’ s really helpful and valuable information!