You and your partner have been in love for a long time but him have never given you a commitment? You are looking for the real reason and want to get this as well? Ok, so you are in right place. My honest How To Get A Man To Commit article today show you how to get him to commit you sincerely.
In general, to get a man to commit, you need to do two major things as follow:
- Rock his world.
- Make him earn it.
Ok, so now, I’ll present them into details.
Rock His World.
This is the first and very step. If you can’t blow his mind, you will never get him to commit. Why would he? Because you think he should, you think? He has to enjoy your company and always feel awesome around you. And you should feel that way, too. So what to maintain that? Yes, you need to be at your best. Yeah, I don’t mean “perfect”, because nobody is. But you’ve got to bring your A-game.
And the same situation happens to you. If you decide to commit to someone but your world hasn’t been appropriately rocked, then you will have to experience a very long haul. There are now several folks of commit out of pressure, or a sense that it’s what they “should” do. Don’t let this happen to you. Try to get a real commitment with love- an easy decision. Avoid a commitment without love: a jail sentence.
Make Him Earn It
After you rock his world, never say something like, “OK, I rocked you, now pay me back with your lifetime commitment.” That will never work, but even make things worse. In contrast, try to show him that he has to earn that privilege and more important, to keep earning it. Here I don’t mean about berating, withholding or something like that that we all despise. I mean, you should show him how to treat you properly so that he will always initiate, put on effort and earn the thing he wants. I don’t just mean sex, because you can get sex anywhere. I mean the great stuff he loves about being with you.
A lot of women get anxious and fearful and needy and end up rewarding every behavior they hate. As long as a guy backs off or feels uninterested, they will be likely to go into overkill mode. In this case, try to “win” back his attention and affection. When you do this well, you will be able to manage things better.
One thing to note is that never say something like “I’ll do anything for this, and you don’t have to do a thing.” Actually, he needs to do something. He needs to feel that he’s trying to earn what he wants, so that he will understand and appreciate its value.
Speaking of this, I have a friend, she has been in love with her partner for 5 years but hasn’t got any official commitment from him. She tries to gain this, but doesn’t try to make him earn it. She compromises what she wants off the bat by showing him that she is down for “whatever”: noncommittal sex without strings. That’s okay if that’s what you want. But she doesn’t want that at all. She simply thinks he will do and she is going low-rent on him, hoping he’d come back. Finally, things don’t happen as her expectation. He’s gone.
In fact, men don’t want it easier. They need to make sure that what they’re going after is worth their time. But this doesn’t mean you won’t get rejected during the process. But providing that you can really knockout someone and make him come back for more, you are the winner.
This is my own situation. I start going on date with a fella who is fresh out of a committed, live-in relationship and tell him that he is not likely to call anyone his girlfriend anytime soon. I don’t say something like, “Oh yeah, buster, you had better make a decision now or I will be out!” I have never force him to give any Talk. Actually, I like him. So I try to blow his mind and make him earn it. I do my own business only, keep my life going and make it clear. And whenever he wants to see me, he needs to let me know. When we are together, I make him feel like a million bucks.
And a long time of showing up, he is spending most evenings with me six months later. He cooks dinner for me and wants me to be with him on his best friend’s wedding. And on a dreamy road trip, he whispers in my ears sweet and sincere words that any women wish to listen from their boyfriends.
It certainly works fine. Actually, I have had a few crossed signals with my dream man, and we’ve shared some insecurities together. Does this imply something that we’ll be together forever and ever? Yes, of course, at this time, nobody can say it for sure, but the decision to be committed to a relationship is a reliable evidence that you can totally develop your romantic relationship.
Yeah, my final point is that this isn’t a trick that you pull to “get” someone to commit and then stop. Because your stopping means you’re giving up. You are the person who decides your life together — can you find a better way than to continue impressing and engaging and deserving each other? I can’t. The key is to carry out that right now.
Yeah, above is a clear article on how to get him commit. Do you find it helpful? Actually, they are secrets that I myself find as well as refer to some other reliable experts in the field. Some women have applied them and informed of quite good result. So I’m confident that they can work fine for you, so why don’t you consider and give them a try right now?