As a girl, I always I Need A Boyfriend who matches with me in as many aspects as possible. Besides, I have some qualities that I hope he will have, which are to ensure that we can together to build a healthy and long-lasting relationship. And I think that, they are common things that any girl look for at their boyfriend.
And here are such 13 things in details:
He’s someone who can tease you and also be teased.
A boyfriend should never be hateful or say something hurting his partner’s feelings, but should sometimes give her a joke.
Both of you must well enough understand each other to know when you’ve crossed the line, so he should be together with you to make teasing fun — never threatening.
He challenges you.
In fact, he‘s as strong as you are, but more passive. He’ll encourage being at your best and challenging every decision you make, but you’ll love him for it. Life with him will be always exciting and always brings you surprise.
He isn’t passively waiting on you, he has his own plans.
Any person has his/her own life and you are not an exception, so he should respect that you have yours. He should never put you under difficulties of giving up the club with your other friends. In contrast, he encourages you to spend time with them as you want to because he knows that you will finally come home with him.
He doesn’t air your dirty laundry.
He gets to know any of your trust, and you can share everything together. You’re not afraid of your embarrassing stories, but confident to tell them with him, even when they are going to come back to you when you meet his family or when you meet his friends for drinks.
Yeah, of course, such secrets things should be only shared between the two of you stays between the two of you. In some special case, there is limited people who get to know, that is your BFF.
He knows how to deal with your bad moods.
He is the person who is able to bring you the most comfort. With him, you can feel everything simple. When you get angry, he somehow knows way to deal with you with more grace than anyone else. The, up to your own feeling, angry and emotional or overwhelmed and exhausted, he gives you some space with yourself and knows when to hold you in his arms.
When he apologizes, he really looks for forgiving from you.
When he does something wrong, he’ll always be man enough to admit it and say sorry to you. And then he will never commit the similar mistakes again. Consider the way he says sorry to you, if he is really sincere, forgive and have him by your side. He is actually a man, not superman, and mistakes are un-avoidable, the important things here are how he corrects them.
He’s moving at the same speed you are.
In term of both current career and his lofty life goals, he is always moving at the same speed with you. He knows what he wants and looks up to what you want. He’s never forceful or uncomforting — just gradually moving from one goal to the next one with a very vivid future in sight.
He neither belittles nor puts you on pedestal.
He’s always slow and firm, but never a bathmat. He neither idolizes nor makes you feel small. He treats you as treating a fierce woman. He also likes to spoil you, but will never give you everything you want. He’ll always keep you feel curious. Remember that he is your partner, not your supplier. He’s there because he wants you, not because he needs you.
He is someone who teaches, but never lectures.
The best partnerships are the ones in which both of you can learn from each other. He master at his own field and loves to share you with new things and insights on things he’s passionate about. He teaches you in many ways, but never makes you feel like he’s pushing you or judging you. You are teaching other lessons that make both of you better people and better citizens of the world.
He makes you laugh.
There is a saying that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.
If he cannot make you laugh, he will soon get you to grow tired of him. Laughter is one of the vital elements in a real relationship.
He’ll call you out when you need to be called out.
He good at telling you things are. He’s not afraid of hurting your feelings, and he doesn’t creep around you, either. He never lets you get away because of stupid bullish, not because he doesn’t take care of you, but because he doesn’t want to be jerked around by those Alpha Female ways.
He wants to be the wind beneath your wings.
He’s a stoic man: strong, self-governing and sure of himself. He makes chance for you to lead, but he’s always there to give you full support. He understands the background completely; he is always your strongest supporter and your steadfast foundation. He is happy with the fact that you’re popular because you’re a person he’s very proud of.
He knows when to drop it and when to address it.
He is sure at his ground when he knows he is right. While he argues with you, he doesn’t accept to concede when it leads to ending a fight. You’re strong-willed, and he understands when a different opinion or a questionable action is worth discussing and when to let them away.
Yeah, here are 13 key things out of many other things that a man should have so that they can build a happy and maintain a long-lasting relationship with their girls. Of course, you may have some other ideas around this issue. But they are key things that any reads will agree with, right? So if you are a man, consider whether how many qualities of them you have, and which you are lacking then try to fulfill them all.