There are many reasons that lead to the break up of a relationship. After break up, maybe your ex still love you (of crouse only they know that) but that doesn’t mean that they want to come back with you again. Maybe two of you break up because of families, or hobbies or jobs – the reasons make two of you can not continue. But in some cases, together with still loving you, if your ex want to get back with you again, they will show some signs which are really clear. Let us help you to find out the signs your ex wants you back.
1. Future is always the topic they want to talk about.
After break up, many intelligent people can still be friends. Did your ex talk much about their future with your appearance in that when two of you go out for hang up? Such as “I love to go to see my idol’s film, they said that maybe it will on the next few months but I don’t know exactly the time…If you want to go with me, I will search on the internet to find the best ticket for the best view and maybe before that we should go somewhere to have dinner….”or something like that. It means that your ex is thinking about the future with you-they hope that they can get back with you in the near future.
2. They always talk about the mistakes in your relationship.
Many couples after break up feel hate or dislike each other because of their mistakes-they can not solve themselves because no one wanted to say that they were wrong. But with some people, talking about the old mistake is the way to make them get the experiences for a new relationship, especially when they choose you to talk about that-they want to fix something in the past with you for the new beginning. All you need to do is be smart to clarify these two cases. Which couple can solve the problems in the past without any stress is the one who gonna be husband and wife in the future.
3. They try to become better than they were in the past.
If you can see that after break up, your exes is trying to make themselves better, like finding a new job, going to the gym, learning a new language or studying to play a new musical instrument AND-very important, they show you that they have responsibility with the mistakes of your olk relationship…, it means that they are trying to prepare themselves better for their future life-the sign proves that they want to get back together with you. But remember that, this sign only be true when you know that your exes focus on their benefit, not on another objects.
4. Do they go on a date with someone new?
Did you ask you ex about their dating life or did they tell you anything about that? Well, if they try to hide them from that, maybe this is the sign that show you your ex want to get back with you again. They don’t want to let you know about their true feeling because they still hurt inside. They need time to think or just they feel shy to show you that. One more time, you should be awake to make sure about this sign. Maybe they want to get back with you or maybe they just don’t want to think about dating after a stressful time so they are enjoying their own life without any girlfriend or boyfriend.
5. Do they want you to listen about your beautiful memories?
When hanging out like friends, did you have to listen many times about your good memories from your ex? I think this is the clearest sign to prove that they want to come back with you. Spending too much time just for talking about the beatiful but old memories cannot help them anything for their life at the present so why do they do that? Waste of time, isn’t it? Why didn’t they find a new one to start dating and making their own beautiful and new memories? Just because they still have your face in their mind, they still think about you strongly so that they don’t have time to think about another people.
6. Their behavior to you.
How did your ex treat you after break up? First, did they treat you like their enemy or just like a normal person on the street? Or second, did they suddenly be polite and charming with you in everything which is make you feel that there weren’t any break up happened? If it is the second situation, I can make sure that they still love you. They want to use their actions to show you their feeling.